Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Post It Note Tuesday and Facebook

Alrighty…link up and be happy.  Or link up and be nasty.  Or link up and make someone else happy.  Whatever you do, LINKthefuckUP!!



I somehow don’t understand why people need to share so much information.  Some of the posts I see on there really have my mouth hanging open and the words WHAT, THE, and FUCK come spewing out.




My sis from 2010-Year of Miracles sent a person my way on Facebook.  Apparently this person is pregnant with her second child, does not have much in the way of baby clothes, is some relative of my sister’s husband….like his brother’s wife’s daughter’s cousin or something like that.  Anyway, my sis knows how I like to dispose of my old and tattered baby stuff be generous with things I no longer need, so she asked if I would want to pass some things on to this person.




Really…I exchanged a few emails with this person but I guess it was too early in her pregnancy to really drive to get the free stuff, because she never made an attempt to let me know when she wanted it.  I asked my sister if she wanted to relay to this person that the stuff was still available, but then thought….



So, I left it be.  I figured if the girl was ready, she had my email and could contact me, right?

Well, I saw a post the other day from her on Facebook saying this….

HER: “feels so sad and worried. really dont want history to repeat itself.”

She was referring to being at the end of her last trimester…



Me:  Hang in there....stick to what feels right for you and baby. Don't let people sway your mind. It will be fine.....think of that little miracle that's soon to be here! 

A few other people gave their support as well.  One was a little lengthy, but I figured this was a good friend of hers. 

I should have kept my support to myself because the lengthy responses were amazing…She went from talking about something about abuse, and somethingorother about baking challah and then ending it with something about not having enough TP at one time and having to use washcloths!


I seriously wanted to crawl in a hole FOR her.  When I went to look back on the posts, I saw that SHE also wanted to crawl in a hole because she deleted that post!! 









Just like Mr. C. posted:        She's CUNTry..

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Seriously, people.  Yes, we love to hear what you are doing, and we love to hear how you are at that particular moment, but nobody, and I mean NOBODY wants to hear all kinds of CRAP!!

If you want to air your dirty laundry, hang it in your own back yard, not FACEBOOK. 


Just sayin….

Happy Tuesday!!


cfoxes33 said...

What a good post!

Kat said...

I'm sorry. Should we delete her together? :) On the count of, two.........

Acting Balanced Mom said...

stopping by from Supah's link... so sorry you have to deal with the drama... i'm pretty picky about my Fb friends... people like that are why :)

~*Katie*~ said...

Love this post!!!

I'm your newest follower!! :)

Kimberly said...

Thank you for stopping by my blog and commenting. Of course I had to swing by and check yours out. I am now following and look forward to reading more!
All the best,

Lourie said...

That is what Twitter is for.

Maggie said...

Aww come on. I was just going to tell a couple more stories about my puppy eating days. Are you telling me I shouldn't? You spoil all my fun!

Cheeseboy said...

I think you just described what a BLOG is for.

I think your safe with your home address. Just update your security forces.

gayle said...

You are so right about fb!! Sometimes I just shake my head and wonder what in the world are these kids thinking and it isn't even the youngest ones saying such dumb stuff!!

Sandra said...

I think Facebook is for finding old boyfriends and torturing them with pictures of how now you don't have big 80s hair anymore or wear high tops!
And yes, I know exactly the type of person you are referring to on FB, as a matter of fact, I may know this person you are talking about, only mine had a son who had his leg blown off in Afghanistan, and although my friend kept saying how it was top secret military information, her status updates were very detailed and pathetic...and my friend doesn't delete her posts, so clearly, not getting wiser.